This dress isn’t really appropriate for your age.” I can already hear it.
Do I listen @53? I pretend not to. Do I feel like wearing it today? Oh yes.
Will someone say, “Her upper arms aren’t firm enough for that dress”?
“Her belly shows”? Probably. And you know what? Yes — I still feel it.
But also: I love this dress. Right here, right now. And I feel this kind of energy that is stornger than an lot of beauty propaganda.
Will I bring a matching pashmina?
Maybe.
Will I stand tall when someone takes a photo?
You bet.
Will I look terrific?
Yes. I. Will.
Do you like looking in the mirror?
Can you face what you see — really see?
Why do we so often feel uncomfortable in our own skin?
Are our standards too high?
Are we shaped by what men might think?
Are we still afraid to accept who we are — fully?
Why do we let others decide what’s “okay” for us?
Maybe it’s time we stop.
Just because — in this very moment —
✨ we feel free. And fabulous.
And for those “kindly meant” family or friend comments…
Here are my 3 favorite comebacks to keep your power:
=> “Thanks — I trust my own taste.”
=> “Oh, this dress? It’s happiness in fabric.”
=> “I dress for me. The end.”
Enjoy the summer party – in your best dress. And please leave a note with your thoughts when reading this article 🙂
