Another entry from my personal “Book of Life” that I’d like to share here.
For me — at level 53 — luxury means one simple thing:
Freedom.
➀ The freedom to choose.
➁ The freedom to say no.
➂ The freedom to feel myself — to know what I want… and what I don’t.
This dress isn’t really appropriate for your age.” I can already hear it.
Do I listen @53? I pretend not to. Do I feel like wearing it today? Oh yes.
Will someone say, “Her upper arms aren’t firm enough for that dress”?
“Her belly shows”? Probably. And you know what? Yes — I still feel it.
But also: I love this dress. Right here, right now. And I feel this kind of energy that is stornger than an lot of beauty propaganda.
Will I bring a matching pashmina?
Maybe.
Will I stand tall when someone takes a photo?
You bet.
Will I look terrific?
Yes. I. Will.
As we grow, we don’t just chase new beginnings —
we learn to root. In ourselves. In acceptance. In what is, instead of what should be.
“When we are no longer able to change a situation,
we are challenged to change ourselves.”
– Viktor E. Frankl
📚 And it’s true.
There are moments in life when we simply can’t change what’s happening around us.
The people. The dynamics. The disappointments.
But we can change how we respond.
And sometimes — that changes everything.
It’s not easy.
But over time, space opens.
New perspectives appear.
And surprisingly often, peace follows.
💬 Have you ever changed your story — not by rewriting others, but by softening your own grip?
It would be wonderful if you’d share it with us. Thank you for your trust.
This one is wonderful – enjoy 🙂
Bags under the eyes and other important construction sites.. . I hope that we women remind ourselves – and each other – more often:
You are perfect.
Your radiance comes from within.
Your skin tells your story – every line, every wrinkle, every smile.
Let’s light a little flame together.
For the next season of our lives.
For growth. For lightness. For abundance.
For us women. For our lived femininity.
What color do you want to bring into your life in these new times?
Feel free to tell – because oftentimes one forgets – we are not alone �
Fabrics, shapes, words, memories. Clothing not only touches the eye, but also stimulates our mind and can influence ourselves. I have always bought fewer but very beautiful fabrics. As I get older, I find it hard to let go of them – so I think about how I can wear them again so that they give me this kind of strength, like a new piece of clothing when we wear it for the first time.
Not every day is about fresh flowers and soft light. Some days are about showing off, standing tall and asserting yourself – in high heels or flats, with lipstick or with a calm look on your face.
There’s an important presentation coming up – it’s important that I make that famous perfect „1st impression“ (and yes, mainly men). With a story in my hand and calm in my head. Because being a woman doesn’t mean hiding your softness. It means owning it – and knowing that it’s part of your strength.
Today I feel very comfortable in my wonderfully swinging blue skirt: red pearls, a funny clutch (good smalltalk invite) and the courage to speak up – for myself and for the work I love.
👇 Tell me your “1st impression outfit” below – or save this look for your next courageous day.
Love,
Some days, all I manage is this: I breathe – slowly, three times – just to remind myself I’m here.
Or I step outside, even if it’s just around the block. No phone, no purpose. Just me and the sky.” Because SOMETHING IS BETTER THAN NOTHING.
What do you do to get grounded when life is overwhelming you? What are your small rituals – which might be larger but for some reason just get a little but powerful space in your life? Sending your a lot of blue sky 💙
Today I’m wearing my favorite wide-leg linen trousers — they move with me through it all:
kids, dogs, work, life. And a green polka dot scarf adds just enough joy to keep things playful.
For me, fabric is everything.
🧵 100% cotton. 100% linen. 100% real people.
And yes — real means real bodies. Real curves. Real change.
There’s so much talk around me about hormonal shifts in midlife — and yes, it’s valid.