Yesterday I listened to two young women. One of them was quite resolute with her advice â and yes, it was about the topic: âShould I stay or should I go?â relationship-wise.
Uff⌠such a delicate question. Because no matter how supportive friendships can be, the ones directly involved are often woven into so many relational constructs that a simple âI goâ would cause massive changes for everyone connected. This is deeply private. It carries a lot of responsibility (first and foremost for the woman considering her options). And sometimes, there are doors that can be opened without the whole house falling down.
Of course, Iâm not speaking about violent relationships â in those cases the only way forward is the exit. But whether single, married, or partnered: every woman knows these constructs. I believe they deserve to be looked at (sometimes with professional help), but also to be observed and given time to ripen.
Today, we live in a world where everything seems solvable at the push of a button â but human relationships donât work like that. They need time. And sometimes, they need small solutions rather than the big dramatic ones.
Self-care is always the key. Life decisions should come from within, not from the pressure of other peopleâs advice.
⨠What do you think? Do you agree? (You can watch the entire reel on instagram).
