Another entry from my personal “Book of Life” that I’d like to share here.
For me — at level 53 — luxury means one simple thing:
Freedom.
➀ The freedom to choose.
➁ The freedom to say no.
➂ The freedom to feel myself — to know what I want… and what I don’t.
This dress isn’t really appropriate for your age.” I can already hear it.
Do I listen @53? I pretend not to. Do I feel like wearing it today? Oh yes.
Will someone say, “Her upper arms aren’t firm enough for that dress”?
“Her belly shows”? Probably. And you know what? Yes — I still feel it.
But also: I love this dress. Right here, right now. And I feel this kind of energy that is stornger than an lot of beauty propaganda.
Will I bring a matching pashmina?
Maybe.
Will I stand tall when someone takes a photo?
You bet.
Will I look terrific?
Yes. I. Will.
When joy begins to bloom … don’t we all love to be joyful & bloom?
As women, we don’t always need a plan.
Soft Power is also the courage to let go.
To follow the moment.
To feel – to not think everything through.
And if things go sideways?
Well — at least look fabulous doing it 😉
Bags under the eyes and other important construction sites.. . I hope that we women remind ourselves – and each other – more often:
You are perfect.
Your radiance comes from within.
Your skin tells your story – every line, every wrinkle, every smile.
Let’s light a little flame together.
For the next season of our lives.
For growth. For lightness. For abundance.
For us women. For our lived femininity.
What color do you want to bring into your life in these new times?
Feel free to tell – because oftentimes one forgets – we are not alone �
Fabrics, shapes, words, memories. Clothing not only touches the eye, but also stimulates our mind and can influence ourselves. I have always bought fewer but very beautiful fabrics. As I get older, I find it hard to let go of them – so I think about how I can wear them again so that they give me this kind of strength, like a new piece of clothing when we wear it for the first time.
Not every day is about fresh flowers and soft light. Some days are about showing off, standing tall and asserting yourself – in high heels or flats, with lipstick or with a calm look on your face.
There’s an important presentation coming up – it’s important that I make that famous perfect „1st impression“ (and yes, mainly men). With a story in my hand and calm in my head. Because being a woman doesn’t mean hiding your softness. It means owning it – and knowing that it’s part of your strength.
Today I feel very comfortable in my wonderfully swinging blue skirt: red pearls, a funny clutch (good smalltalk invite) and the courage to speak up – for myself and for the work I love.
👇 Tell me your “1st impression outfit” below – or save this look for your next courageous day.
Love,
„I am more than ready for spring and I connect all the colours because I enjoy it. But sometimes I need soft and – slow – colours to be able to shine 🙂
I’ve had this vintage necklace for years, and it remains beautiful. Some items never go ‘out of style’. The world known mocassins are from #timberland. The deliciously oversized blazer is vintage. Together with a white shirt and jeans – so classy for mostly any occasion. I’m a fan. The shirt is from #ralphlauren and incredibly soft. By the way, whenever your are in a major city – drop into the Ralph Lauren store – not necessarily to buy something but just to get inspired of their stylish „take me to the Hamptons interior“ – yes always white with a good match of classic colours!
🐰 Looking for a really appreciated Easter gift? Take a look at #Garancia Paris – their LARMES de FANTOME are a must with its cooling pearl and XXL hydration.
Have a great day!
‘I have an appointment in Rome.’ Sounds just great, doesn’t it? Just me with a suitcase full of beautiful outfits, fragrances, great food and marvellous wine. And it gets even better: I will meet the most wonderful women and am sure to get my first italian gelato this year!
Just in time, like every year, these friends of mine remembered: We urgently need to look out for nobody but ourselves again. By that I mean: strolling through the alleyways before our first coffee, snacking tomatoes on the market and moving in slow motion all day long. Rome – even the name sounds like history, elegance and dolce vita: pressing your nose against shop windows, enjoying gelato in all colours and shouting salute across the piazza in non-existent Italian. Plus, of course, the Colosseum, cappuccino and historical monuments.
Via del Corso and Via Condotti – all the little boutiques that hide real treasures. Hotel tipps? Peace and contemplation in the hotel garden of the @HOTEL DE RUSSIE, a restaurant visit to the HASSLER with the best view of Rome (fully booked – unfortunately!) and then the colossal Palazzo MANFREDI. One thing is for sure – it’s not just my suitcase that will return heavier than when I arrived.
When evening falls, the city is bathed in golden light, says the travel guide. A walk across the Bridge of Angels, past the magnificent Piazza Navona, a last drink with a view of St Peter’s Basilica and the feeling of security: Where we are, we are exactly right!
Live life like Coldplay: VIVA LA VIDA – and we’re right in the middle of it!!! (PS: and don’t let anyone grumble because it’s not really Italian but it just sounds sooooo nice)
Today I’m wearing my favorite wide-leg linen trousers — they move with me through it all:
kids, dogs, work, life. And a green polka dot scarf adds just enough joy to keep things playful.
For me, fabric is everything.
🧵 100% cotton. 100% linen. 100% real people.
And yes — real means real bodies. Real curves. Real change.
There’s so much talk around me about hormonal shifts in midlife — and yes, it’s valid.