A question I get asked quite often: What can you prepare for a festive party without spending the whole time in the kitchen instead of with your guests?
Well, we hotel people tend to be very pragmatic â we know that good, down-to-earth country cooking not only makes both young and old happy, but can usually be prepared completely the day before. The secret isnât extravagance; itâs organization, warmth, and a menu that lets you enjoy the company youâve invited.
Nothing is harder than trying to please everyone. At 53, let me share something with you: every year it gets easier to stand true to yourself. And honestly, Iâm deeply grateful for the person Iâve become. Iâve lived a lot. Iâve learned a lot. Iâve got stories, scars, and laughter â and I wouldnât trade any of it. I am me. And yes, I like me.
In the past, I often wished life would calm down â fewer ups and downs, less turbulence. Did that happen? No. And today, Iâm glad it didnât. Because peace isnât the absence of motion; itâs the ability to find stillness within it. I appreciate moments of harmony now, and Iâm profoundly thankful that Iâve learned to walk away from people who drain me instead of give me energy. That, Iâm convinced, is one of lifeâs greatest medicines as you grow older.
Bags under the eyes and other important construction sites.. . I hope that we women remind ourselves – and each other – more often:
You are perfect.
Your radiance comes from within.
Your skin tells your story – every line, every wrinkle, every smile.
Let’s light a little flame together.
For the next season of our lives.
For growth. For lightness. For abundance.
For us women. For our lived femininity.
What color do you want to bring into your life in these new times?
Feel free to tell – because oftentimes one forgets – we are not alone ďż˝
Fabrics, shapes, words, memories. Clothing not only touches the eye, but also stimulates our mind and can influence ourselves. I have always bought fewer but very beautiful fabrics. As I get older, I find it hard to let go of them – so I think about how I can wear them again so that they give me this kind of strength, like a new piece of clothing when we wear it for the first time.
Not every day is about fresh flowers and soft light. Some days are about showing off, standing tall and asserting yourself – in high heels or flats, with lipstick or with a calm look on your face.
There’s an important presentation coming up – it’s important that I make that famous perfect „1st impression“ (and yes, mainly men). With a story in my hand and calm in my head. Because being a woman doesn’t mean hiding your softness. It means owning it – and knowing that it’s part of your strength.
Today I feel very comfortable in my wonderfully swinging blue skirt: red pearls, a funny clutch (good smalltalk invite) and the courage to speak up – for myself and for the work I love.
đ Tell me your â1st impression outfitâ below – or save this look for your next courageous day.
Love,
