Nothing is harder than trying to please everyone. At 53, let me share something with you: every year it gets easier to stand true to yourself. And honestly, I’m deeply grateful for the person I’ve become. I’ve lived a lot. I’ve learned a lot. I’ve got stories, scars, and laughter — and I wouldn’t trade any of it. I am me. And yes, I like me.

In the past, I often wished life would calm down — fewer ups and downs, less turbulence. Did that happen? No. And today, I’m glad it didn’t. Because peace isn’t the absence of motion; it’s the ability to find stillness within it. I appreciate moments of harmony now, and I’m profoundly thankful that I’ve learned to walk away from people who drain me instead of give me energy. That, I’m convinced, is one of life’s greatest medicines as you grow older.

Today, I’d like to inspire both seasoned professionals and those just beginning their journey in hospitality — and of course, everyone who feels drawn by that wave of CHANGE currently sweeping through our industry — with a fascinating topic: C for Conversation & Psychology, the quiet forces behind every genuine guest experience.

From first impressions to complaint management, from guest relations to team spirit — every interaction is psychology in action. Hospitality, at its best, is not about perfection, but perception: how we make others feel seen, respected, and valued.

This time, I’m looking at it from the team’s perspective — because sometimes, we find ourselves serving guests we might never even greet in our “normal” lives.

And yet, that’s part of the magic. Hospitality challenges us to move beyond personal preference and to meet people where they are — with empathy, curiosity, and grace.